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Kristen писал(а):

do u think Mrs. NatalyS would be more appropriate?

darling, I don't think it makes any difference. In fact I neither feel nor look old. As for the age according to passport... Do you think it's important? My daughter, her friends and even my students has never treated me like old or disabled. Call me by my first name and it'll be all right. American way of calling people you mix with by their first name appeals better to me than using patronimic. More than that on the site all women and sometimes men are supposed to be friends or good aquaintances as far as we have the same interests and respect each other whatever their age is.


As for those people feeling depressed or even suicidal sometimes..... I doubt that someone is able to help them if they themselves don't want to cope with their problems on their own. I know from my own experience that for some people especially young it's a kind of bravado when they want to demonstrate how cool they are just to keep up. Whereas for those who are really facing a problem but don't feel the need to conform it's but natural to consider the situation or discuss it with someone they confide in ( I call it verbalization) or read special books to find a solution or learn how other people behaved in the situation like theirs. You see I have had a lot of difficult situations with my family life or career and I would do my best not to let anyone even my dearest and nearest learn about it untill I managed to improve it or at least realize whether it's really vital or just casual one we should take for granted.
Sorry, I've made you tired. Maybe I'm wrong, but it's my personal position. Aren't you ? I didn't mean to do it.
As for other questions, let me answer them a bit later as a girl who comes to my place to clean has fallen ill and today I have to do cleaning myself.