Ayisha
My dear girl, you are sure to know the proverb "as the call, so the echo".
I don't think my advice is very useful but having a daughter and being a grandmother I can't but feel concern about you! You are so sincere and good-hearted that you simply can't make anyone indifferent. You see I'm waiting for your baby to come as if you are my daughter. Love. My best regards to your husband.